Are you stuck in a loop of dating the wrong kind of men over and over again? Maybe you always date men who wind up cheating on you, or perhaps you keep attracting guys who are immature, childish, selfish or uncommitted. As a woman, it is easy to fall into a pattern of dating that doesn't give you what you want, need or deserve from a relationship. There are several things you need to evaluate about yourself to figure out what you may be doing to attract the wrong kind of men and how to change that and get the man you want.

There are any number of things that can make a man the "wrong type." They may already have a girlfriend or wife that they neglect to tell you about. Or, they may seem like the most exciting, irresistible man in the world for the first few months and then suddenly change and become boring, distant and inattentive like they have suddenly lost all interest in you. Some men have explosive tempers that don't show themselves until you are already in a relationship which can be frightening and potentially dangerous. Some guys simply don't get it and are just plain too immature to fulfill you in a relationship.

The first thing you need to do to stop attracting the wrong kind of men is to pinpoint exactly what type of man it is that you attract. Make a list of all the men you have dated and look for what they have in common. Are they all angry? Did they all cheat on your? Were they all immature? By finding some common threads between them and learning exactly which types of wrong men you are attracting it makes it easier to spot what you may be doing to always wind up with these guys.

Part of the reason that women tend to attract the wrong kind of guy over and over again is because they don't have any experience with healthy relationships. Because you don't have a background of a good relationship to draw on and know what to look for, you keep sticking with what you know and wind up repeating the pattern of dating that you are used to.

In order to stop attracting loser you need to take the time to learn just what a healthy relationship is. Most of us think we know what makes a healthy relationship, however what we have been taught and have learned throughout our lives may actually be off base. There are no classes that we take in school that teach us what to look for in a relationship so all we have to learn from are the relationships we see around us. Whether that is the relationship (or lack thereof in some cases) between your parents or the relationships of your friends or siblings, often times what we see and learn from is not the ideal which can lead us down the path of making wrong decisions when it comes to men.