Why does your relationship always have to be like a war zone with your ex? Don't you two love each other? But seriously, if you are madly in love with your ex, and you are willing to do anything to work it out, then you have just entered into heaven!
Everyone deserves a second change, and I have the tools which will salvage any broken relationship, regardless of how horrible your past was. Read on to find out the rock solid techniques which will pull your ex back....
o The most difficult thing you can ever do...
When you talk to your ex, what usually happens? Well for most people it goes something like this:
You: "Hi, I was missing you!"
Ex: "I am busy right now..."
You: "You never spend time to talk to me. You said that we could talk, but you always ignore me."
Ex: "Ok, what is it that you want?"
You: "I really miss you, can I see you? Today?"
Ex: ...stays silent...
While it may seem to start off well, eventually this conversation could go any direction, where you literally start arguing, blaming, insulting, begging, pleading, crying, and worse! It all depends on how you feel in the moment, but most people make this mistake of losing control of their emotions the minute that they see their ex is not responding the way they want.
What happens then, is that your ex will ignore you after, and may even hang up on you. But at the end of the day the main thing which is killing your chances, is your emotions. They are getting the best of you, and because of this, you are not getting through to your ex.
Thus, the most difficult thing you could ever learn to do, is to hold back, even when you desperately want something. But trust me, you need to hold back, because if you don't you will only ever argue with your ex, and cause more problems than you bargained for.
o The one thing that seems impossible in the moment
When you are speaking with your ex, it almost always turns sour or nasty. You then feel more upset, and feel even worse, and may even end up calling your ex back too many times because of it. But the one thin that seems impossible to do, in the moment, is to simply be understanding.
With understanding comes a whole new world of things, such as the ability to pleasantly carry things on, the ability to let things by without judgment, and more importantly, PATIENCE. Without understanding, your ex will always feel as if you are always trying to hurt them, annoy them, or simply ruin their life.
You must take the time to really understand your ex and be polite at all costs. It's not good to disrespect your ex by always breaking their boundaries, ignoring their wishes, and outwardly disrespecting them.
If you really want to reverse your breakup then you must take these two points into consideration, because once you do, you will find that your ex has a new found appreciation and liking for you.
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