When your ex boyfriend broke up with you it left you emotionally upset and he was angry, but it should be the other way around. You are the one that should be angry and to get your ex back, you need to make him regret losing you. Right now you are the one feeling rejected and lonely, but there are ways to make him have those feeling, while you are having a good time. You have been good to your ex and tried to make him feel loved and you do not deserve to be treated this way. So, do not be crying and begging him to want you again. Instead be strong and mature and you will have him begging you to take him back.
The way to do that is to put as much distance between you as possible. Ignore him and act as if he does not exist. This will get his attention quicker than anything. When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend expected you to chase him crying and pleading for another chance. He was also expecting to be bombarded by emails, phone calls and text messages. But if you do not play that game he will suddenly wonder if he made a mistake.
Staying away from him will not be easy for you because your instincts are telling you to stay close to him. But, if you have already tried to contact him, you know he will just ignore you. So, why let him feed his ego by having you crawling to him? He wanted to have time to himself, so respect his wishes and give him more time than he can handle. As long as he sees you trying to get him back, he will never feel remorse. How can he when you are still there telling him you cannot live without him?
In order to make him worried, you have to make him wonder what has happened to you and why you are not trying to get him back. That means that you will have to drop out of sight for a few weeks and think of yourself and your own needs. One of the best ways to regain your confidence is to pamper yourself a little. Go to a good salon and get a complete makeover. New hair style, massage, manicure and a tan. Then go shopping for new clothes that will make you desirable. Then go out with friends and have some fun. Your ex boyfriend will hear about your activities and think you are looking for a new guy.
Nothing will get a man moving faster than thinking he is losing what he feels is his. He still considers you his girlfriend and he will not want to lose you. Even though he has treated you like crap, he still loves you. He will be calling you and you will want to run to him, but you cannot seem too anxious. Remember how you got him in the first place. You played a little hard to get and made him chase you. If you stay just a little out of his reach for a while, he will soon be the one pleading for another chance.
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