When you are still in love with the man that dumped you, it can arouse several emotions. These different emotions can make want to do different things. If you feel sad and miss your ex boyfriend you will be desperate to find a way to get him back. If you feel anger and humiliation, you might want to seek revenge. You can satisfy all of these emotions by dumping him and making him beg for your love.
If you want to make your ex boyfriend sorry for breaking your heart, you can do it. You can't actually dump him , but you can make him feel as if he has been dumped. It all begins with using male psychology to get inside his head and the no contact rule to make him miss you. The first thing you need to do is shake him up a little. He is sitting pretty smug right now, waiting for you to come crying and begging so he can reject you again.
So, let him sit but don't let him see you come crying and begging. Show your ex boyfriend you have too much pride and dignity to let him bring you down. Ignore him and move on with your life, this will be using the no contact rule. Take some night classes or take up a hobby. Spend time with your family and friends and let him see that he is not the center of your life.
Male psychology will teach you that men do not handle rejection well and that is what you will be making him feel by ignoring him. He dumped you, but your actions will make him feel you are dumping him. He thought you would try everything in the book to get him back and here you are, acting like he does not exist. His fragile ego and pride will not be able to take much of this, but you need to deliver the finishing blow to him.
Go to a good salon and get a complete makeover. New hair style, manicure and a tan. Then go shopping for some hot new clothes that will accent your new look. Now, you are ready to knock his socks off and make him sorry for breaking your heart. Get with your girlfriends and go out on the town. Stop by the places he hangs out and let him get a good look at the lovely woman he dumped.
Ignore your ex boyfriend, but flirt with some other guys and leave. He will still be standing with a stunned look on his face as you go out the door. It might take him a few days to recover from his shock, but when he does, your ex boyfriend will be ready to beg for your love.
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