When your boyfriend pulls away from you and then wants to take a break, it can leave you feeling undesirable. You still love him and wish you knew what caused him to lose interest in you. The answer to why he lost interest could be many things. But, there are effective ways to spark your ex boyfriend's interest again.
Having the man you love lose interest in you can make you feel undesirable. But, the reason your ex boyfriend broke up with you, could be his problem and not yours. This might surprise you, but men wonder about their desirability too. He knows you find him desirable, but what about other women. Do they still find him desirable too?
Your ex boyfriend hears his male friends talking about their latest conquests and he has nothing to brag about. He loves you, but he decides he wants to take a break and see if the girls still go for him. It is the hunter gene that all men have and sometimes it overwhelms their good sense. But, if he needs a challenge, you should give him one.
To spark your ex boyfriend's interest, you will have to let him go. Not forever, but long enough to make him desire you and you alone again. He is expecting to go through the problems that occur after a breakup. Such as having you show up where he hangs out and creating a scene. He expects phone calls, emails and text messages telling him you cannot live without him.
Don't do any of the things he is expecting. Instead have no contact with him at all. Go out with your friends and have fun, but avoid anywhere you might run into him. He will hear of your activities and be surprised you are not sitting at home waiting for him to call. A few days after he hears of you being available to guys again, you need to disappear.
Take a mini vacation, or visit relatives that live in another city. Your ex boyfriend will hear about you being missing and think you might be with another guy. That will not only spark his interest in you but he will realize his idea to take a break wasn't very smart. He won't care if he is desirable to anyone else, he just wants you back.
Just continue to ignore him and live life without him. The longer he is without you, the more your ex boyfriend will desire you. He will realize that you are the only woman for him and he doesn't want to be without you. That will make him see that getting you back will be all of the challenge he needs and his hunters gene will have him chasing you.
H L Archer is well versed in the field of romantic relations having helped many people over the years to solve problems of dating, strained marital relations, divorce, dating after divorce and surviving after a relationship breakup. He would like to extend a helpful hand to you and any others that may be struggling with a romantic relationship.
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