The hardest thing to accept after a breakup is the feeling of not being wanted. You thought he loved you and wanted a future with you. Now that seems like a dream that won't come true. But if you are not ready to let him go and want to get your ex boyfriend back the easy way, this is all you have to do. Learn how to push his hot buttons.
When your ex boyfriend told you he wanted to move on, he pushed your hot buttons. He knew you loved him and this would be the last thing you expected him to do. By catching you by surprise, he thought he could avoid a lot of argument. He was right because you are still so stunned you can hardly think.
If you want him to come running back, you need to push his hot buttons. You can do that by making your ex feel as rejected and unwanted as you are feeling. That might seem like a difficult task since he broke up with you, but you will just use a little male psychology. He thinks you will do all you can to get him back. That will swell his ego to almost bursting.
But if you ignore him and act as if you don't care, it will be a different story. Men like to be in control, they think it gives them their macho image. When he broke up with you, he felt in control, but seeing you just walk away and not try to get him back, he feels that power slipping away. You are not playing the game the way he had planned it.
He thought you would chase and beg him for awhile and then sit home waiting for him to call. That would allow him to have some fun, date other women and you would be there when he wanted you. But you are out doing things and acting as if you never knew him. This is pushing his hot buttons real hard and it's not fun for him anymore.
Your ex boyfriend doesn't know it yet, but he will soon begin to regret breaking up with you. To make him realize he is still in love with you and yearns to be back with you, push another hot button. Get dressed so you are looking desirable and go out with some friends. Stop by where he hangs out and give him a big smile.
When he comes over to chat, be cheerful and treat him like an old friend. This will push his hot button for real. He won't be able to stand being treated as if he is only an old friend and all of his old feelings for you will come flooding back. This will make your ex boyfriend begin chasing you again.
H L Archer is well versed in the field of romantic relations having helped many people over the years to solve problems of dating, strained marital relations, divorce, dating after divorce and surviving after a relationship breakup. He would like to extend a helpful hand to you and any others that may be struggling with a romantic relationship.
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