You Have a Boyfriend But Do You Have a Commitment?

Oh, the little lies we tell ourselves sometimes. The ridiculous and silly claims we embrace in order to feel needed and wanted. The people we hang onto because we fear not having anything better.

I just had to rant a bit. This way it may cause you to start to really think about the man you're with.

What has he got? Why are you with him? And is it a temporary fix or the real thing?

See, you don't have commitment unless your boyfriends so crazy about you that he's gone out and crave room in his man life in order to put you in that space.

What do I mean? Well, if he is still sleeping with you after months of dating without ever bringing the topic of moving your relationship to the next level, then your man's not truly committed.

Men do not have a problem with commitment. They commit to what they want. They commit to having a booty girl if they want that. They commit to having a great job if they want that. They commit to hanging with their boys if that's what they want.

You cannot tell me that if you really want something, that anything would stand in your way to get it. And men in general love to get what they want.

So is your man worth keeping? Are you trying to convince him to love you, want you, cherish you, adore you? Or do you have a boyfriend who actually has enough brains to see how much of a bombshell you really are?

Nicole Gayle is the author of the e-book, How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife, written to help you take your man from maybe to "I do" - Be the kind of woman your man HAS to marry. http://www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com

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