Having broken up with your boyfriend, you now would like to contact him to see if there is a chance of getting back together. You are not sure what to do and are actually scared to call him. Its just as well that you are scared to call because that's most likely a bad decision at this time. Another alternative that may be better is write a letter.
Not many people write letters these days with the ease of email and text messages. But a letter is so much more personal. Its something you can hold on to and keep with you. It can also be so much more personal because you need to take time to sit with pen and paper and express your feelings.
What would this letter consist of? Well for one you are not going to ask your ex to get back with you. You are going to throw him off by not asking this question of him. Your letter is going to have him thinking why you are doing ok about the whole situation.
You are going to tell him in the letter that you now realize that the break up was a good idea. If you were the cause of the break up apologize for what you may have done but don't over do it. Do not complain about anything he may of done, remember your trying to get him back so don't stir up anything else.
Resist any temptation to tell him in the letter that you want to get back with him. In fact don't contact him after you send this letter. The tone of this letter should come across as calm and self assured. What this letter will do is give you some emotional power because he would never have expected this from you and he will be thinking what the heck are you up to.
After a few weeks have passed ,you can make a phone call to see how he is doing. Keep your tone of voice upbeat and happy. You should be able to tell from his tone of voice whether you can ask to meet him now or wait awhile longer.
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