If you are trying to get your ex back you have already found how difficult it can be. You probably have been just trying things with the hope something will work. One of the things you may be doing is trying to contact them by phone or whatever means you can to convince them that they should be with you.
If you have not figured it out yet, this tactic rarely works. Think about it, You broke up to get away from each other, what's the odds of getting right back together again? Whatever caused the break up is still fresh on their mind and they want nothing to do with you now.
If you have been trying to contact them you must stop now. It may not make sense that if you want your ex back you don't contact them. The idea is stay away from them so you and your ex can get over the break up and in addition, you work on yourself to make any improvements needed to make you more appealing to your ex later on.
As time goes by and you go about your lives, the bad memories can fade away somewhat. Figure it may take about four weeks to get past your break up and get back to normal. If it's been this long and you still haven't gotten over them you may need some counseling to help you out. To think about them is normal, but if its an obsession then you have a problem.
Now you can make contact with them. Hopefully your ex has been wondering what you are up to because they have heard nothing from you. Call your ex to tell them you just want to say hi and see how they are doing. Have a good upbeat attitude like you have been doing great.
Keep the conversation short saying you must go. If your ex keeps the conversation going, hang in there a little longer. Make another phone call a few days later to ask if you could meet with them for coffee or something. This could be your first step towards getting your ex back.
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