You may have girlfriends that stayed with guys for a long time, maybe even years, and then the romance ended suddenly. They were probably so hurt by the situation that it might have affected new relationships.

At some point, you may face the same thing if the man you are with doesn't decide his thoughts. To motivate him, you should consider some important points.

Establish His True Motives
Guys don't think the same as women do. What you're reading in him might be light years from what he is thinking. Hanging and having fun may be the limit where he is willing to go. You need to know that before you spend a lot of time with him.

Keep Him Satisfied with the Relationship
If you are testy with him, it is an indication of how things will be in the future. Neither he nor you should want to advance in a trying situation. If arguments or disagreements arise, try to resolve them quickly. Make him happy to be with you.

Protect His Interests
Let it be clear to him that you are his trusted friend. Take up for him if others make negative remarks. Support him when he most needs it. Openly oppose those who have done him wrong.

Do Things with Married Friends
If you've friends who are happily married, go to dinner with them. Take in a show or have a party with them. Without being obvious, comment on how happy they are. This could backfire if the couple is not committed to each other.

Ask About His Future Plans
It shouldn't be a problem to inquire what his plans are now. If he doesn't mention you in any of his hopes, he's not thinking marriage at the present time. If he has no future plans, either you aren't in them or he's not being truthful. Start him to thinking about his life and yours.

Don't Expose His Faults
No one is perfect, no matter how much you love them. Repeatedly telling him about something he does wrong won't be endearing to him. Any time that you feel you must say something about his flaws, make it more of a pep talk than a fault talk.

Be Self Maintained
You want him to understand that you don't need his assistance to do things. Don't appear so needy because he will think that is how it will always be. Stand on your own two feet. Don't be afraid to do things on your own.

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