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by Gina DeNicola

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A few days before Raymond's wedding and on his birthday, I went to visit him at work. I sat at one of the community tables writing and when it was time for his break he came and sat down with me. As he started to talk about all the things he needed to get done in the next few days, I just looked at him, really looked at him. I said to him, I don't know how to be your mom now that you're getting married. An older gentleman, who was sitting at the other side of the table, looked at us and chuckled as if to say to me, "we've all been there and you will be fine honey". At least that is what I imagined him to say because at that moment I needed reassurance and the wisdom from someone who has been here. The real problem is that I don't know where I fit into their worlds anymore.
There is the realization that you are no longer the first call when something goes wrong. As an example, a week before the wedding we were having our last dinner, just the four of us, the "core four" before we added a lovely and sweet new member to our family. When Rob and I got to the restaurant the kids were already there. I gave Ali a hug and then went to give Raymond the same hug and when I got to him I looked down at his arm. There was a huge scab and I said to him "What happened?" His response was so casual; "Oh I fell off my scooter last week". Did he call me? No, no he did not. Did he text me? No, no he did not. His theory was that we were having dinner later that week and he would just tell me then.
I really, really don't know how to be a mom of adult children. It's not like you can just do what you've been doing for the last 24 years. I've done my mothering well and my children are functioning adults that don't need me on a daily basis like they did even 5 years ago. Once again, I am in new phase in life and this is a really hard phase that I am not happy about, but then an Aunt (I have some really smart Aunts) said, "The Beatles said it - Love is all you need" and instantly I knew it was all going to be all right. I have plenty of love for my children and that will never change and I suddenly felt calm.
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