Very often we hear these terms used together-Wills and Trusts. However, they are not the same thing and, in many instances, serve different functions. It's likely that many of us have seen those infamous scenes on T.V. programs, or movies, where the lawyer reads the Last Will and Testament of the deceased uncle to the surviving members of the family-each member on the edge of his/her seat wondering whether he/she was left the uncle's millions. And, as for a trust, it's likely that many of us think of wealthy adult children receiving money from a trust-often called trust babies. But, both of these images limit really how important it is for the every-day person to have some type of will or trust in place.
It is likely that you may be reading this because you, like so many of us, know that having some type of document directing how our assets are to be given away at death, as well as who will take care of our children at our death, is crucial. And, knowing we have these documents in place helps us sleep better at night. To this end, this week, which is Part 1 of 2, we will start with understanding will basics.
What's probably the most important issue for many of us is that a well-drafted will tells our survivors who will be the guardian of our children. For example, if a single person with children dies without a will, his/her survivors must file papers with the court to determine who will be the guardian of the surviving children. This can be a long and expensive process and may not necessarily carry out the deceased person's unwritten wishes. A well-drafted will is analogous to the adage-an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
Please note that it cannot be stressed enough how important it is to seek guidance from an attorney regarding will formation. In fact, a well-drafted will distributes our property to the survivors we choose-like making sure your '69 Camaro goes to your brother, your coin collection goes to your son, and your '75 Thurman Munson baseball card goes to your best friend from childhood. However, without a will, it is unlikely that the 'gifts' will be made. In fact, in California, if you die without a will, then State law, not you, chooses how all of your property will be given away at your death. For example, if a married person, with no children, but surviving parents, dies without a will, then half of his/her property will go to his surviving wife, and the other half will go to his surviving parents. That's it. So the car he wanted to give to his brother, and the baseball card collection he wanted to give to his best friend, may never happen.
So, why an attorney? And not a pre-printed form from a stationary store or an online form from a website that advertises wills? Like all areas of law, there are many concerns involving technicalities being carried out correctly so the will is valid when a person dies. An invalid will is the same as dying without a will. And, at times, portions of a will may be invalid without the proper legal guidance. For example, let's look at a common scenario: A person has a valid will drafted where, among other things, leaves his expensive coin collection to his oldest brother. A few years later, he and his oldest brother have a falling out. So, this person takes a pen and crosses out his oldest brother's name in his will and writes in his youngest brother's name-believing that he cancelled the 'gift' to his oldest brother and made a 'gift' of this coin collection to his youngest brother. Are you ready for this? It is possible that neither brother will get the coin collection. And, it is possible that a will contest will be filed and dragged on for a period of time.
The law regarding crossing out on a will is complicated. And, often, when a person takes his/her own pen to a drafted will, problems arise. Thus, attorney guidance
regarding will drafting, and even changes to the will, is highly recommended. In case you are curious, the coin collection could be distributed as if the person died without a will. So, if the man is survived by only his parents and the two brothers, then the entire coin collection may go to his parents. This is quite a dilemma now for the parents if they have to choose to whom the coin collection should be given.
Please note that the above information was kept in simplest form to help give you a primer of a situation that is important to many people's piece of mind. As many areas of law, the complexity is understood and handled well by an attorney. Thus, it's helpful to know that an experienced attorney is a phone call, or email, away to help provide guidance.
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