Have you ever wondered if you really in love or if you were just infatuated? Probably not. Why not? let's face it...when people are completely enamored of someone, they are totally unaware of anything and everything around them except the person that is the object of their affection. In all things, love is the greatest and most powerful emotion that we have! It can make or break us as individuals, and it can even decide what we will become.
It's a good thing to know for sure whether you are actually in love or not before you give yourself to someone completely. However, remember that when you're really in love, you don't have to follow all that's mentioned below; they come by themselves.
What is real Love?
You know the person we're talking about. That hot guy playing basketball in the gym...the cute girl who makes eye contact as she passes by...the friend of a friend of a friend... may be a best friend.it's that person you keep track of when he or she is in the same room, whose comments and actions we analyze to the end.
Although real love is often accompanied by strong feelings, love can not always be equated with the sense of floating on clouds. Unlike what is portrayed in movies, television and songs, people in love don't feel ooey-gooey around each other all the time.
What is important?
Knowing about the person is the key: Knowing about the person's personality and character is so very important.One good test is to list qualities that attract us to that guy or girl.If the list is long, we know a lot about the person, and like those things. If the list is short, we either don't know a lot about our beloved, or we know much but aren't magnetized by his or her personality.
Another important factor in a relationship is common life goals:
If the relationship is going to be long term, you need to be going in the same direction as the other person. If his dream is to travel as an international businessman and she wants to be a Realtor in a single location, conflict could arise. If she wants to live in the countryside with nature and he lives the hustle and bustle of a big city, there are potentially serious problem with the couples lives.
Love isn't always sex:
That statement alone goes against a lot of what the entertainment industry feeds us. Whenever two people hook up in pop culture, they sleep together. Without showing some of the unpleasant realities of premarital and extramarital liaisons, it is drawn up to be a wonderful and fun recreational activity.
Sometime you drown yourself in lovemaking to such an extent for the sake of your love that you don't give a thought to how unwanted pregnancy, Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs), guilt, insecurity and shame can follow.A relationship based on lust can only last as long as the two are physically close and find each other sexually attractive. You can read even more by licking link below
http://positivensuccess.blogspot.com/2007/09/all-you-need-is-love-but-who-knows-what_2422.html