Husbands arenâ€™t always quick to share what theyâ€™re feeling with their wives. This tends to leave women confused and uncertain about exactly where their marriage stands. Your inner instinct will rarely steer you wrong so if youâ€™ve been feeling as though something has changed in how your husband sees you, donâ€™t ignore this. There are some warning signs he wants a divorce that you need to be aware of. If you spot any of these in your relationship, now is the time to act if you hope to save the marriage.
One of the most obvious signs he wants a divorce is heâ€™ll threaten you with it often. Even the happiest of couples will argue at times and say things they donâ€™t mean. One of those things may be to bring up the idea of divorce as a tool to upset or anger your spouse to gain the upper hand in the conflict. However, if your husband talks about it often or if comments on how fortunate other men are who are going through a divorce, donâ€™t take that lightly. Heâ€™s trying to tell you that heâ€™s unhappy in the relationship and chances are very good that if heâ€™s talking about it openly, itâ€™s on his mind a lot.
Another of the signs he wants a divorce can be a bit more subtle. Many men will slowly pull away from not only their wives, but their children as well, if theyâ€™re in an unhappy relationship. This manifests itself by the husband missing nightly meals because he has to work late or heâ€™ll come up with an excuse for why he canâ€™t go on vacation with you and the kids. If youâ€™ve noticed this happening in your marriage, your husband is starting to create distance between him and the rest of the family.
Pay closer attention to how attentive your husband is and how concerned he seems by whatâ€™s going on in your life. When a husband is emotionally invested in the marriage, heâ€™ll tend to his wifeâ€™s needs by asking her if thereâ€™s anything he can do to help her. If your husband has stopped doing this or if he seems preoccupied by whatâ€™s going on in his own life, you should be deeply concerned. He may not care about you as much anymore and that will eventually lead to the end of your marriage.About the Author:
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