Home  About  Register  Login
Are You Living In Someone's Mentality? by Steve Beckles-ebusua

Hi all,

I hope you are all well.
I’m a person that loves attending motivational seminars, workshops and reading about the great motivational speakers around the world. I recently attended a seminar addressed by a man called Jonny Wimborne.

During his show he said something that made me think.

He said:

Be willing to do today that others don’t, to have tomorrow that others won’t
Simple, but true

Can you think of a time when you chose to do something and your friend or colleague said, leave it, you can’t do it,it’s too hard or I know people that have spent ages trying to do that and failed, let it go

Am I sensing some nodding heads?

But for some reason you felt compelled to do it anyway

My question to you

How did you feel when you completed that task, which they wanted you to leave?

A feeling of your own total self-control, a rush of independence or non-conformity?

What ever you where feeling I bet it felt, good (oh yes!!)

I believe somebody else’s mentality does not have to be your reality

We hear them everyday, stressing the word YOU

I would not bother trying, YOU will find it too difficult, YOU can’t do it that way it’s full of problems

Think about it, what is your work colleague or friend really saying?

I don’t believe you’re capable of doing it?

Maybe…

I’ve tried doing it and it did not work for me, so it definitely won’t for you

Their words may sound funny or you might feel flattered that their giving you advice.

But think about it, you have accepted their mentality and made it your reality?

They might be your best friend but they are still saying

I don’t believe that YOU can do it

That’s their MENTALITY ABOUT YOU

I believe no one has the right to say what you are or not capable of?

As individuals WE don’t know what we are really capable of

SO HOW WOULD THEY KNOW?

Also remember

There are many people out there that measure your possibilities based on their own failures.

When your next in your office or amongst friends listen for the person who recommends that YOU don’t bother trying to do something that you have suggested.

Think about what they are saying about YOU?

Have a positive week.

Hi my name is Steve Beckles-Ebusua, I'm a motivational speaker and Life coach.

I hope you enjoy my thoughts

Peace to you all


Other articles by Steve Beckles-ebusua

See The Sign... Make The Move Before It's Too Late! - by Steve Beckles-ebusua

Hi all,

I hope you’re all ready for a purposeful,positive and productive week.

As I’ve mentioned on more than one occasion to be successful you must set your goals in life. As the saying goes if you want to get somewhere

Newest Articles in Positive Attitude

The Self Improvement Way To Remove The Inner Critic - by Michael McGrath
All of us use inner self talk throughout the day. It is this inner dialogue that we have with ourselves that gives advice and feedback about the things around us. Sometimes our inner voice is motivating and helpful, telling

Positive Self Talk And Self Attraction - by Abu Aremu
One of the aspects of Self Talk is the Law of Attraction. Motivators have succeeded in identifying that your Self Talk is your thought. And what you think is what you attract to yourself.
Therefore your Self Talk is your

The Law of Attraction, a Primer - by Brett Nordin
Across America and around the world people are ablaze with this new information, this groundbreaking truth, this secret to unleashing the power of the universe, and harnessing it for you own good purpose. But is there really anything new

The Law of Attraction, Is the Power Real? - by Brett Nordin
Dr. Wayne Dryer, noted international speaker in the field of personal development and author of 29 inspirational and motivational books, passionately believes, "The more you see yourself as what you'd like to become, and act as if what you

Positive Daily Affirmations - by Steve Knowles
Positive daily affirmations are a powerful tool that we can all exploit to great effect.