First of all, why are you suspicious? Is there really a reason for you to suddenly feel all doubtful and wary about your wife? Really, sometimes, we just become too paranoid. Maybe your relationship is starting to lack the usual excitement and thrill that you are suddenly looking for signs outside the relationship to blame. Maybe you just started to become guilty that you can't seem to please them anymore. Looking for signs is good, but nothing beats taking the problem head on. To put it simply, the best way to slay the suspicion is to talk to your wife directly. If the doubt is killing you, here are three signs that your wife is having an affair.
She suddenly dresses up more than usual. This is not strong evidence. She might be doing it for you. However, if she's dressing up and then always in a hurry for an "appointment", then it's time to be worried. Really worried. She works late all the time. If she suddenly have to render over time at work more than two to three times a week without a raise in her usual salary, it's probably a serious office romance, not a case of being serious in her career. She's often distracted and doesn't nag anymore. You're going out with a couple of friends on a weeknight and you're going to be home late. She says it's fine. You're going on a beach trip this weekend and she says it's fine. You'll be staying at a friend's house for a party and she says it's fine. The usual wife would demand an explanation plus a detailed description of your agenda. If she's not, she's probably having plans of her own. Without telling you of course.
Again, I have to emphasize that the best thing to do is to talk to your wife directly.
Who knows, you might both realize that your love is still alive and it was downright silly for you to suspect at all. Open communication is the key for a fruitful relationship. For more tips on life, love and romance or for other signs of an affair, visit my website.About the Author:
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