In some of my previous articles about how to seduce a woman, I discuss concepts like surety, self- concept, and self-assuredness. These are things that you might not have in abundance or you would be less likely to have looked for information like this in the first place.

I am not going to try to fool you, guys who are more self-assured do score more than guys who are not. The simple reason is that it is sexier to us. The best way to show your confidence is by light touching. You will need a measure of self-concept to try the technique that I am going to share with you.

If you have a chance to talk to a girl, try taking her hand just lightly. Do not look at her hand when you are touching her. The touching should be completely natural and feel good to both people, and that means keep your eyes focused on her eyes when you do it, not your hand. That will make things weird. Always continue talking as though nothing unusual is happening. She will not shy away as long as you are in control and sure of yourself.

Now, this takes some practice and you're going to want to experiment when you're out meeting women, but you'll figure it out.

Remember, gently and naturally and you'll do fine.

If you're unsure of yourself, she will sense it anyway, and any attempt to touch her will just amplify the weird feeling and she will tighten up.