A few years back I participated in a three-day studio tour on beautiful, art-friendly Bainbridge Island. I spent most of the weekend scurrying around, pricing and re-pricing every scarf, sweater, and hat, certain that if only I chose the right price my work would fly off the walls. It didn't.

That weekend came vividly to mind as I read the following letter from artist Julie Sadler.

"I was recently in an outdoor art show and had to give prices to people as they asked for the original works that I have done. Even tho I have gotten a fair price for some of my larger works on the internet, I found that if I asked for my price at the show, people walked. When I went down 50%, items sold. Does this mean, I am pricing things too high to begin with? Is it better to sell only a few things...at a larger price, or many things at a smaller price??"

Julie, my friend. (Given that I became so utterly enchanted that I spent two hours last night perusing Julie's website and related links when I should have been writing this article, I claim the right to call you my friend sans irony.)

The simple answer to your question is that you can expect to sell for less when you sell your work on the street, where you cannot control the context, where you are not in charge of the guest list, and where you don't even choose what your neighbor will be selling.

What to do? It's not enough to say, "Don't lower your prices." Nor is it enough to say, "Stay off the street." You and others, whether artists or architects, who struggle with what to charge, need three things to get off the price roller coaster.

1. A platform. 2. A path. 3. A practice.

To grasp the significance of platform, consider the difference between Disneyworld and the Louvre, between an Aveda spa and a remote, rustic hot springs.

With all due respect to sidewalk art shows -- and my first venue was the local farmer's market -- when you sell art on the street you have left the cathedral for the carnival. It's no surprise that folks expected to pay less.

In order to reach your platform, your audience steps onto a path. The nature of that path determines not only the initial exchange, but also the future of the relationship as well as your own sanity and sense of direction and connection.

You see, there is always a path, but until you take charge of the landscaping and maintenance, the path is likely to lead your customers into the wilderness instead of into an ongoing relationship with your work.

The other thing about a path is that it tells you where you (and your work) are headed. Knowing and taking care of your path keeps you on track, reminds you what you are up to, reinforces your choices, and gives you a map and a rationale for your art pricing and other key parts of selling your work to the just right audience.

There are a couple of clues in your email, Julie, that tell me your path wants your loving attention.

I was recently in an outdoor art show and had to give prices to people as they asked for the original works that I have done. Even tho I have gotten a fair price for some of my larger works on the internet, I found that if I asked for my price at the show, people walked. When I went down 50%, items sold.

But here's the deal. Make the street fairs a way to get onto the path, not the end of the path. Print greeting cards, mat color reproductions that you can sell for street prices. When people buy these low-end representations of your work (steppingstones along the path), invite them to get on your email list, then talk to them from time to time, inviting them to make pilgrimages (to gallery shows, your Web sites...).

Finally, without a practice, you're bound to fall off the path. In other words, fear, the desire for appreciation and approval, and even your creative nature will distract you from your path without a practice to keep you focused.

I could write a book on practice (in fact, I am.) For the sake of this article, here's a simple practice to support sane art pricing.

1. Set prices in advance and take a vow of abstinence from lowering them. Your price is your price is your price. You owe it to the people who have paid full price to honor the value that you and they have already established. Prices go up, not down, unless you are selling a commodity. 2. Use the buddy system to seal your vow. Wherever two or more artists (or architects or bodyworkers) gather together and agree to hold the line, there is light...

3. In lieu of selling, share yourself with people who are interested in your work. Talk to folks. Ask them questions. Answer their questions. (Tip: listen literally and answer the question they ask, not the question your fears hear. For example, "Why is this so expensive?" is not the same as "How dare you charge so much?")

4. Work on your platform and path. If you are busy designing and building your dream, you are less likely to be distracted by the nightmare.