Neediness

WHAT'S NEEDINESS?

Neediness, on the other hand, is obviously fear-based.

Think of someone who is "Dear to you". With this person in mind, I'd like you to try on the following three sentences:

"I love [person]"

"I need [person]"

"I appreciate [person]"

Which one feels the healthiest and most peaceful to you?

Neediness is the underlying assumption that you are not complete unless you have some Barbie or Ken doll hanging off of you.

Neediness goes away completely when the following three conditions are met: 1- You have internalized the belief, "I AM Enough." 2- You are balanced in your emotions 3- You live now.

HOW DO I KNOW I'M FEELING LOVE AND NOT NEEDINESS?

For one thing, Neediness is an energy that tends to live in the past and/or the future. For example, someone dumps you, and for months you keep torturing yourself, thinking about the good times. That's not love, it's NEEDINESS.

Another example is that of CRUSHING on someone. Crushing is the act of making cute little movies in your head about being with someone in the future. Again, that's not love, that's neediness.

LOVE IS IN THE HERE AND NOW.

Love is an emotion, or an energy, that can only exist in the NOW moment, and it's also a PEACEFUL emotion.

When you're thinking about Barbie or Ken and have knots in your stomach, that's neediness. It's NOT LOVE.

TRUE love feels peaceful, lives in the present, and is an expression of appreciation.

Neediness is synonymous with DRAMA, STUPIDITY, CRUSHING, STRESS, WEAKNESS, and FEAR.

Unconditional Love MINUS puttin up with crap = Happiness

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