Articles by Leslie Cane
He's Become Indifferent Toward Our Relationship. What Can I Do? -
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Leslie Cane
I am concerned and affected by all of the correspondence that I get from wives. But, from the standpoint of saving marriages, some of the emails that concern me the most are those that indicate that the husband has become indifferent or apathetic to the...
Can Our Marriage Survive If The Attraction Is Gone? -
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Leslie Cane
I recently heard from a wife who told me that she was pretty sure that her marriage was over. Things had been rough for a few years. But, within the last few days, the husband had finally admitted to her that he was no longer...
He Says He's No Longer Attracted To Me And Can't Love Me -
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Leslie Cane
I often hear from very upset wives who have been told something quite upsetting by their husbands. In short, he's typically told her that he is no longer "in love" with her because he's either no longer attracted to her or just doesn't find her...
I Thought I Wanted To Separate But Now I Realize I Love My Husband And Want Him Back -
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Leslie Cane
I sometimes hear from spouses who, during a separation or break that they themselves had asked for, had the sudden realization as to what a huge mistake they made. I often hear comments like "I'm the one who pushed for the separation. I really thought...
How Can I Make Him Happy Again? -
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Leslie Cane
I hear from wives in this situation quite a bit. Last night, I received an email from a woman whose husband had sat her down and told her that he "just was not happy in the marriage anymore." He didn't really give her any specific...
He Keeps Threatening To Leave Me: Insights That Might Help -
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Leslie Cane
I recently heard from a wife who confided that every time that she and her husband disagreed or hit a rough patch in their marriage, the husband pulled out what the wife called the "leave card." She told me: "every time things get rough, my...
When Your Spouse Is Ready To Give Up On Your Marriage But You're Not -
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Leslie Cane
I often hear from spouses who are trying desperately to hold onto their marriages while their own spouse is ready to call it quits. I hear comments like: "I'm not ready to give up on my marriage, but my spouse is. What can I do...
I Think I'm Going To Lose My Marriage And My Husband -
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Leslie Cane
I recently heard from a wife who told me that she could literally feel her husband slipping away from her. She said in part: "I know that I'm losing him. I can feel it. He just doesn't seem all that interested in me or the...
How Can I Get Him Back When He's Pushing Me Away? -
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Leslie Cane
I recently got an email from a wife whose husband had been becoming increasingly distant and cold to her. He had begun hinting that perhaps they should try a trial separation or taking some space from one another. Of course, this was the exact opposite...
He Left Me But Won't Say Why -
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Leslie Cane
I recently heard from a wife who just wasn't sure what to do. Her husband had left her and the home the week before and now was not accepting her calls, texts, or emails. Anytime that she did get him on the phone or placed...
He Might Leave Me. How Do I Get Him To Stay? -
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Leslie Cane
Most of the women who read my blog do so because they are looking for a road map or workable plan to save their marriage when they are the only one that wants to. Usually the husband has been dropping hints or has just come...
He's Distant To Me. How Can I Make Him Love Me Again? -
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Leslie Cane
Many of the women who visit my blog or comment on my articles can literally feel their husband or their boyfriend slipping away from them. The distance is a feeling that has become so real that you can almost touch it. I often hear things...
I'm Afraid He's Moved On And That It's Over -
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Leslie Cane
I often hear from wives who want to know when it's too late to get their husband back. Some tell me that, in their minds, it is too late because their husband has seemed to "move on." I often hear comments like "We've been separated...
All Of A Sudden, He Filed For Divorce. What Now? -
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Leslie Cane
I recently received an email from a wife was still in shock that she had received divorce papers at her office without any warning. She knew that for the last few months, things had not been all that great between her and her husband. But...
I Feel Like My Husband Is Going To Leave Me. What Now? -
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Leslie Cane
I recently received a pretty heartbreaking email from a wife who felt that in the next few days, her husband was going to leave her. The two of them had just not been getting along due partly to the stress of their financial situation. They...
How Do I Get Him Interested In Reconciling? -
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Leslie Cane
I recently got an email from a wife who was estranged from her husband. He had not yet moved out, but he was most definitely heading that way. The two of them were having a hard time communicating in a positive way and this was...
My Husband Keeps Insisting That He Doesn't Love Me When Things Go Wrong -
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Leslie Cane
I recently received an email from a wife who told me that her husband had recently began a very frustrating and hurtful habit. Every time they disagreed, fought, argued or just failed to connect, he would let it slip that he didn't think that he...
Is There Really No Hope For Our Marriage? -
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Leslie Cane
I often hear from wives whose husbands are telling them that there is no longer any hope for the marriage. I recently heard from a woman who had been trying everything in her power to save her marriage. They had been to counseling. They had...
Three Top Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble Or That Divorce Is Possible -
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Leslie Cane
Many people intuitively know when their marriage is really in deep trouble. Sure, some will try to tell themselves that they've just "grown comfortable," and that it's not realistic to expect for the passion to last forever. But most of the time, that nagging little...
When Your Husband Wants His Freedom -
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Leslie Cane
I recently heard from a wife whose husband had told her that he had decided that he wanted to be "free" and was going to pursue a separation or a divorce. The husband was giving her all sort of broad excuses such as he felt...
