Enjoy Every Christmas Holiday As If It Were Your Last
The holiday season is just around the corner and already you can hear people complaining about the holidays. It seems that as the holidays approach, people get grumpier and grumpier. During a season that is supposed to be filled with good will and kindness, it appears to be increasingly more popular to be filled with anger and hostility.
Outgoing Cash Flow Increases The Stress Of The Holidays
For many, the idea of all the money that is spent on the holidays often affects their attitude and behavior toward the people around them. In a world where commercialism and competition have taken control, keeping up with the Jones' is becoming a driving force to depression and hostility. If everyone would slow down, worry less about the expense of the gift and more about the quality of time shared, the concept of quality holidays may become a reality.
Reflect upon last Christmas, can you actually remember each gift that was given to you from friend or family. Did it matter what the price tag was or was the lasting Christmas impression built upon the family time shared.
Use Last Christmas As A Model To Change Your Holiday Season
For many, it is in the reflection of holidays past that change the behaviors of today. Taking the time to reflect on last Christmas will provide a sound resource on the values and importance of your personal Christmas holiday.
Using Images From Last Christmas To Alter Holiday Attitudes Is Not A New Idea
It is a famous theme, Scrooge's life altering dreams that take place in the famous move, A Christmas Story. It wasn't until he was forced to analyze his own behavior and the results of those choices that he truly learned a lesson. So it is for many people today, without being forced to really look inside themselves to learn about personal values, they rarely slow down to determine what is making them happy or unhappy within their own lives. Self-analysis is often the least appreciated skill in life but when applied, is the most helpful to altering one's own reality.
This year, when the holidays become a flurry of activity and tension grows, pause and reflect on the important events and moments of last Christmas and realign your personal goals with what is most important in your own life. Taking the time to reflect on happy holiday memories will provide the groundwork for the upcoming holiday season, insuring happy, stress-free family memories.
