The Challenge of Eldercare
Isn't eldercare a challenge that every person faces or has to face? Taking care of aging parents, an elderly loved one, an elderly spouse or a close friend could mean a responsibility, and it can happen suddenly too. An aging mother has broken a bone, or a spouse has just wandered off and got lost. Such incidents could lead you to uncertainty, and just taking care of such people would make you think of eldercare.
Often a crisis hits a family and the aging mother or father is in need of long term care. Besides, in the natural process of getting old, the elderly start showing signs of mishaps. There may be illnesses, weight loss and there may be several other warning signs to indicate that they are in need of special help from you.
For some people eldercare comes naturally, because they are temperamentally patient and have knowledge of nursing. But even that may not help, if the problem is serious and needs outside help like a rehab facility or a nursing home to recover. Get help from friends and there are institutions and centers like the Elder Care Support Group or Daily Living Solutions.
Look for practical and affordable solutions. Eldercare does not mean that you have to do everything with your own hands because you love your mother very much and want to take care of her. Be practical and look for home medical equipment, if it is necessary or home health care products, which will make life easier for you.
There are Support Groups for eldercare, where you can meet and discuss your problems with them, because they have already solved eldercare problems. Share your experiences with them and learn from theirs, their problems could be similar to yours. In this way you can fulfill the special needs and requirements of your loved one.
In traditional society eldercare was the responsibility of the extended family. Since families have become small, their living space restricted and life expectancy of the elderly has increased, there has been a rise of homes for the elderly like seniors apartment complexes, old peoples' homes or charitable institutions.
Eldercare not only includes medical care but also social care that the family and loved ones can give the elderly. It is important that there is an element of love and care in their eldercare, and that it is not looked down just as a responsibility to be dealt with mechanically. It can be a case of elder abuse, if there is no personal touch to eldercare.