Celebrate weddings, honeymoons, and marriages with smiles
One always gets a certain feeling of exhilaration and anticipation when people talk about weddings, honeymoons, and marriages. Maybe because these things mean a new chapter, a new episode, and a new beginning. Weddings are always associated with blissful times, memorable moments, and joyous celebrations. It's probably because weddings mark the next step of a person's life. Weddings lead to married life - which only means that a person dies as an "I" and starts as a "We". This is why weddings are exciting, because the person accepts to be part of another person. He lets go of himself or herself and accepts someone else to complete his or her whole. Honeymoons are euphoric as well, why? Simply because when one says "honeymoon" - it only means one thing - it's a time to relax, enjoy, and live afresh with your loved one, without the cares, worries, and stresses of the outside world. This would be the start of something new - with just you and your spouse. And then there is marriage, what makes this a happy word? It's simply because it allows you to start your own new world.
Though these three things keep on a gay, positive, and joyous mood, there may be other negative things that will try to creep into people's thoughts when mentioning about weddings, honeymoons, and marriages. There will always be the wedding jitters - when anxious thoughts of "maybe your fiancée is not the one" or "maybe the plans and arrangements won't work" or "maybe it will be a failure" seep in. There will always be some hang-ups on the honeymoon - when crazy thoughts of "maybe it's too much" or "maybe it's not the perfect destination" or "maybe you won't have a great time" bleed in. There will always be marriage anxieties - when negative thoughts of "maybe it won't work" or "maybe it will be a disaster" or "maybe it wasn't meant to be" leak in. Of course, one has to always remember that no matter how planned everything is, no matter how careful the arrangement is, and no matter how hard one tries, there will always be some things that would go awry. What makes it nice is that it adds to the thrill of it. It allows one to really think, work, hope, and pray for the best. Without the percentage of failure, there wouldn't be that much pleasure at the end of it - when you finally look back and see that everything went well even with the glitches.
Weddings, honeymoons, and marriages are supposed to be enjoyed and celebrated so people must do so. Whether you are the one living it or an outsider witnessing it, everyone should be ecstatic.
