Keys to a successful marriage lie on the hands of the couple
Marriage is a commitment that a man and woman takes when they both promise and vow to care, respect, honor, and love each other in front of God and man. This commitment is a contract that binds them legally, economically, and emotionally. It is acknowledged in the government, society, and religion - making it legitimate and binding. Marriage, however, has different types - depending on the culture, tradition, and family.
Though there are different types of marriages, the most common and recognized one is between a husband and wife - a monogamous couple. Since this is a lifetime commitment, the couple must learn to make things work for both of them. The best way to do so is to be compatible. It doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be substitutes of each other. It means that you have to be complements of each other. To successfully course your relationship to a greater level of understanding and love, learn to work on both your emotions. You will realize that by expressing yourself properly, you get to bring forward the real you - and in so doing, allows your partner to see who you really are. Only then would you learn to appreciate each other. Try to build your marriage on strong grounds. Settle differences immediately and display all possible solutions to problems and worries. Be able to describe your emotions in ways, which your spouse can relate to. Be specific and detail everything. Communicating well gives your marriage a great hope for lasting forever. By improving both your communication techniques, you will be able to explain, express, and relay messages clearly. A marriage will work when both parties are open with their feelings and thoughts.
If there are certain issues that may entail long discussions and arguments, encourage each other to speak each other's mind unhesitantly. Just make a pact that before you end it, before you end the day, and before you go to sleep, all the things openly discussed have already been settled and solved. Do not ignore things just because neither one wants an open debate. If this happens, it will only compile and add to the many kept hurts and hidden questions in your marriage. This may burst one day and end up never being settled civilly at all.
A marriage would only work if both husband and wife want it to work. If they do, they will always find ways to work thin
gs out. They will never take each other for granted - he will always do things that will make her happy and she will always act in a way that will please him. Even if the couple knows each other and lives under one roof, still continue to make an effort to be kind, thoughtful, appreciative, supportive, and respectful towards each other. Be sensitive to each other's feelings. Marriage is opening one's heart, mind, and soul for another person.
